Yes you did attack her by specifically describing her using a word that has doesn't have flattering intent to it. There was no need to even add "tomboy" into it, but you were intent on making another point no doubt. And to top it off, you dragged her into something that had nothing to do with her, and everything to do with you. That is a ...... thing to do Kesh. It's no different from an armed robber grabbing an innocent bystander as a body shield.
For a guy who is so sure that it's everyone else poisoning this forum, you cannot even grasp the idea, that she isn't posting much because of other obligations at the moment. In your myopic worldview, you twist things to suit whatever your current objective is at the given moment. That is pathetic.
Kesh, the conversation went south the moment you couldn't admit to being flat out wrong about the discussion of Valencia. As was stated, you opted crawfish your way out of that discussion, and pretend you were misunderstood. Then you quickly switched to playing the victim card, and on top of that you started insulting a bunch of posters who said NOTHING to you. Now you have additionally dragged in other posters who said nothing to do you.
You're a real model of civility huh?
As has been stated, when .... devolves around here, you're in the center of the storm every single time.
Again, being a guy who is myopic, I don't expect you to see or even admit to being the problem. Your posts however paint a different story that is clear as day for everyone else to see.