We all see ourselves as the agrived parties. Blame enough to go around. Only way to move ahead is for all parties to stop finger pointing. When resentments have dragged on this long its impossible for anyone to be objective. In any negotiation for peace the best outcome is where everybody feels equally like they've got the short end of the stick.
Don't mistake my praise of Baz for any kind of "alliance ". What I said can be taken at face value. Numerous members have PM-d me with words of support and I have on several occasions told them I don't want a Us against them dynamic, same as I did early on when folks were bagging on Rog's site.
Never thought Zoot was a saint- but found him only slightly more obnoxious than Lex. If perhaps we (I include myself) hadn't come back at him full scale Nuclear Attack - he might have let his hair down and been less defensive. You will concede that anyone who'd lurked here for a time before joining might get the idea that this was an alpha dog rodeo. No?
I'm dead serious about putting this to an end. Nobody is getting happier or getting more satisfaction out of this forum as a result of dragging this out to the bitter end. It's not getting any better for anyone.
What say you Mssrs Jumkie, Lotus, Stylie & Knockdown?
How many times have I offered a truce? Once? Twice? Three times? You've never kept your word Kesh. Fact. If you want to stop, then do it. The time for 'agreements' has ended. And remember kesh, I'm an individual, I speak for nobody, I only have control of myself. You only have control of yourself.
You never really tried to end your witch hunt, despite repeating the claim, somehow you've actually managed to convince yourself. Its as simple as exercising a bit of self control, I've told you this many times now. You've managed to fool some people into thinking you're not the center of the bullying, instigating, and worst of all, making it utterly personal. None, and I mean none would stand to take the depths of personal insult you've made this in to. Its why I've said it's a fascinating social experiment. I've been privy to people going ballistic over minor .... over the years, I'd love to see them read about themselves the .... you've tried to pin on those you targeted. You attack father's (only a parent can truly understand how low of a blow that is) you attack failed relationships (only a person who has gone through real heartbreak might understand) you attack intelligence. For the women here, imagine if one attacked your sense of womenhood as a real personal attack, not a joke. There's been some real awful .... said, sure everyone's got their sensitivities. I wouldn't for example stand for someone to disrespect a veteran, because I have a profound person experience, say a particular sensitivity, some here probably would gloss over it and not think twice. Oh but let someone hit their particular sensitivity, watch the fireworks. Some here have mistaken me and others standing our ground as being part of the harassment toward you, that's as accurate as a person fighting back an attacker then in some sick twist being identified as the perpetrator. Victim shaming based on their ignorant perception. You glossed over when Mdub said to you, you bring a cannon to a knife fight. Have someone explain what that means. A minor disagreement, and you start calling people bad fathers, ...... husbands, cheating mates, unworthy to exist on earth. I reject your narrative that everybody is equally complicit participants in the flame war. However, there is plenty of room for you and I to go about our business on this forum.
You're not tired of the flame war Kesh. You always find a way to continue it. You thought your not so subtle sudden approved of BM would be glossed over? Those of us here long enough understand the indirect message. Those without the history here see it as Kesh being harassed. Mistaken they are.
Its simple Kesh, let people be. Stop telling us who are the members that are awful and unworthy of your approval. Spend your time talking racing and tangents, refrain from attacking people personally. But rest assured while you continue it, I no longer have any motivation to ignore you. That ended three truce attempts ago.
And just a side note, for those "annoyed" to suffer through this flame war. This thread has been absolutely isolated. Its probably never going to offer any racing information about Rossi threatening to leave the sport. Its pretty easy avoiding this thread. Lets not pretend this thread has contaminated the entire forum. And let's not pretend you're not smart enough to avoid this thread. If you come here, we know it's because you want to read the juicy and frankly entertaining details of this duspute. Its fun. Its interesting, and it's a fascinating social experiment. I sincerely hope that none of us (that includes you Kesh) give much importance in the grand scheme of our lives to this entertaining medium of posting on a forum. If it's really negatively affecting any of you please move along and do something more positive. Lets keep this in perspective.