<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Burky @ Jan 8 2007, 08:25 PM)
<{POST_SNAPBACK}><div class='quotemain'>Dear Sir,
With regard to recent discussion on your forum, and the subsequent complaint to yourself and issue of warning.
Though detail of complainant is understandably confidential, may I point out through lively discussion both myself and 'jumkie' were subject to personal insult. I do not believe either myself nor 'jumkie' raised any such complaint. I am aware that we both gave detailed and reasoned response in good humour, for my part I gave a great deal of effort to make responses interesting and amusing, without sinking to personal insult.
I am now extremely concerned to discover vindictive behaviour toward myself. I build and publish my own website, and have access to all input, and am somewhat dismayed to discover several entries on my website poll, all from Romania, rating my website as poor! These were the first of such entries, and have been removed.
I await your response.
David Burk.
Burky, mate, I don't think CapSnow set out to slap you boys on the wrist. As he said, he couldn't see anything too wrong with this discussion. The thing is, as moderators, we're responsible for keeping the atmosphere on this site friendly and open. (And without sounding egotistical, I think you'd agree we do a pretty good job)
Part of that involves taking action when someone feels offended. Obviously everyone's different, so what offends one bloke won't offend the next. And that's where it gets complicated. I can see that your posts were meant in good humour, but without the advantage of face to face discussion, it sometimes becomes hard to discern what's said in good humour and what's said in spite. In my experience as a mod, cultural diffrences magnify the diffuculty.
When someone notifys us of a post they feel is inappropriate, it's our responsibility to check it out and take action if we feel it's nessecary. What I think CapSnow is trying to say is to just be a bit more wary. I mean, good humour is great, but when someone takes offense, it can turn ugly. We're here to diffuse potentially ugly situations. If you see our actions as vindicitive, you're more than welcome to take it up with us and we'll do our best to rectify our behaviour, if we deem it as inappropriate. We're just trying to keep the peace, mate. I'm sure you understand
And as for your website... Well, maybe there's just a grumpy Sete fan out there with bad taste who happens to be in the same country as Capriex and Mike.